
Channel: TheraminTrees
Category: Nonprofits & Activism
Description: A look at the navigating life with abusers. You can support the channel at: patreon.com/TheraminTrees -- opening quote: I walk down the same street. There is a deep hole in the sidewalk. I see it there. I still fall … it’s a habit … —Portia Nelson, Autobiography in five short chapters -- 0:00 control and coercion 2:55 assessing risk — looking at the abuser with a cold eye 12:39 distancing manoeuvres — looking at how we can remove the hooks 22:26 counteracting poison — finding clean water -- subtitles Bulgarian: Djeitko -- references/reading Andreassen, C.S., Pallesen, S. and Griffiths, M.D. (2017) The relationship between addictive use of social media, narcissism, and self-esteem: findings from a large national survey. Addictive Behaviors 64, pp.287–293 Danesh, H.B. (1978) The authoritarian family and its adolescents. Canadian Psychiatric Association Journal 23 (7) pp.479-485 Fan, C.Y., Chu, X.W., Zhang, M. and Zhou, Z.K. (2019) Are narcissists more likely to be involved in cyberbullying? Examining the mediating role of self-esteem. Journal of Interpersonal Violence 34 (15) pp.3127-3150. Nelson, P. (1993) There’s a hole in my sidewalk. Beyond Words publishing, Oregon. Oesterreich, D. (2005) Flight into security: a new approach and measure of the authoritarian personality. Political psychology 26 (2) pp.275-297 -- music © TheraminTrees Full original music tracks used in videos are available to patreon supporters who pledge at the $1 per video level.

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